Why Hermity is on social media ?
Hermity exists on social media not to trap attention, but to offer a quiet reminder that stepping away is possible. In a world designed for endless engagement, Hermity appears in the digital flow to gently encourage moments of disconnection and reflection. Seeing a post may be the nudge someone needs to reclaim their time, breathe, and step outside the algorithm’s grip.
This presence is not about chasing trends but about reaching those caught in the cycle of notifications, offering a doorway to pause. Hermity embraces technology as a tool, not a master, inviting people to balance their digital lives with mindful solitude. Whether through a moment of stillness, poetry, or simply savoring a meal without distractions, the message remains the same: space exists beyond the screen—whenever you choose to take it.
Finding balance in a connected world
I never intended for Hermity to depend on social media. This project was born out of a need for pause, a need for chosen solitude, away from screens that monopolize our attention. And yet, today, we must navigate a world where visibility often requires a presence on these very platforms. It is not a paradox; it is a reality to work with.
Far from being a battle against technology, Hermity is an exploration of a different relationship with time and attention. We do not have to reject everything, but we have the right to choose. To choose to slow down, to allow ourselves moments free from distractions, to not always answer the incessant call of notifications.
Being present to invite disconnection
It may seem contradictory for Hermity to exist on social media while encouraging people to step away. But the reason we are there is simple: to reach those who, immersed in the digital flow, sometimes feel that subtle pull inside. That moment when, upon seeing a post from Hermity, they think, “That’s true, how many minutes have I spent here? Maybe it’s time to step away, even for just one.”
Hermity is not here to flood timelines, to play with algorithms, or to seek omnipresence. We know we need to exist where people already are—not to hold them there, but to provide a doorway, a quiet reminder that they can choose to take a break anytime.
The attraction of social media and the challenge of stepping away
Social media is neither good nor bad in itself, but its design is built around a well-oiled mechanism that fosters constant engagement. We all know it: these spaces are designed to captivate, to hold our gaze, to keep us connected for as long as possible. In contrast, Hermity proposes cultivating moments of conscious disconnection, without denying the usefulness of these modern tools.
The goal is not to completely reject these spaces but to learn to use them differently. A tool can be useful as long as it remains at our service and not the other way around. The key may lie in this simple idea: using these platforms without giving them a central place, without letting them dictate our habits or pace of life.
A project beyond algorithms
Recently, a subreddit I created was deleted after only a few days. Was it because Hermity did not align with the expectations of a platform that favors rapid and constant interaction? Maybe. But ultimately, that does not matter. This project was never meant to fully integrate into these digital spaces. It can be mentioned there, it can appear there, but its essence lies elsewhere.
This is not a matter of opposition but a deliberate choice: to prioritize deeper, more thoughtful exchanges, free from the influence of algorithms designed to maximize online presence. Hermity exists to offer a calmer mental space, a slower pace, a chance to reconnect with oneself in a more personal and meaningful way.
The freedom to step aside
If you’ve read this far, it may be because you, too, feel this need for something different. The need to reclaim time, to breathe, to not be constantly solicited. It’s not always easy, as everything is designed to keep us engaged, but it is possible to step aside—not radically, but gradually.
This is not a call to escape but an invitation to experience a different way of engaging with the world. Perhaps it begins with simple actions: turning off your phone for a few hours, taking a walk without headphones, writing by hand instead of on a screen. There are no strict rules, just suggestions to regain a little control over our time.
And sometimes, these moments of solitude are experienced at home, in the simplest ways. Reading poetry, listening to a soft playlist in the background, creating a musical atmosphere that soothes the mind. Preparing a meal inspired by a foreign recipe, traveling through flavors and scents, letting the imagination wander to distant places. Travel is not always about physical movement; it engages all our senses, opening us to new ways of living, feeling, and being. Hermity is also an invitation to cultural discovery, to draw inspiration from others, to embrace what brings joy.
A personal choice, not an obligation
Hermity does not claim to have all the answers. It is neither a ready-made solution nor a rigid method to follow. It is simply a space that encourages exploring different paths, away from imposed automatisms. Each person can find what resonates with them, what aligns with their own rhythm of life.
Disconnection does not mean isolation. It is not about cutting oneself off from the world but about learning to exist in it differently, with greater presence and awareness. This is not always easy in a society where immediacy is valued and where everything seems to be moving faster and faster. But we have the power to slow down, even if only for a moment.
Building something sustainable
If Hermity continues to exist, it will be thanks to those who, like you, are interested in these questions and seek to bring more meaning to their digital lives. This is not about creating just another online community but about sharing experiences, reflections, and practices that help restore balance.
Social media will always have a place, but they are only a passage, not a destination. This project will never rely on trends or algorithms to survive. It will grow differently—through genuine exchanges, shared moments, and lived experiences.
Perhaps the true richness of Hermity lies in this idea: that there is no right or wrong way to do things. Each person moves forward at their own pace, according to their own needs, without pressure or expectation. It is a more fluid, flexible approach that allows room for experimentation and evolution.
An invitation to slow down
If you feel the need to take a break, to breathe, to reconnect with yourself, then take that time. Whether it’s a few minutes or a few hours, give yourself that space. There is no goal to reach, just an opportunity to explore. And if Hermity can accompany you in that journey, then this project has already found its meaning.
The path is not drawn on a screen; it is discovered in each lived moment, in every instant where we choose to be fully present. Hermity is not here to impose a way of being but to offer a space where everyone can find their own.